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Friday, August 27, 2010

Increasing number of scandals in Bangladesh: Regarding current scandal of Sadia Jahan Prova

Technology is useful thing that is making our days great. But on the other hand it’s becoming a nightmare of our privacy too. With the progressive development telecom sector & internet service, Our privacy and security to our personal life is getting hampered. It’s not like that the technology is entirely responsible for it, But the people who are using it wrongly is responsible for it! There are some tips in this article, adoption of which may make your personal life more safe..
But before the explanation let me tell you a story..


A Picture of Prova with Rajiv on Engagement Program
Maybe all of you have heard of a famous Bangladeshi actress + model Sadia Jahan Prova. She is also quite famous on web for her beauty. I don’t know her personally or face to face even. But reading articles regarding her, I’ve found that She was recently engaged with her Boyfriend Named Rajiv, with home she had a 8 years relationship. Their marriage was scheduled on 17th December of this year. But very recently Prova got married with another co-model named Aupurbo without any notice. And just after that, her scandal videos went out on internet!
It’s not like that, what Prova did is a fair job. Love is a serious issue, It can make anyone upset. But someone should not be so upset like that, he (who is responsible) should destroy the entire good will of someone he loved before. I’m not a good judge, but all I can say that, when you think of showing the world that someone destroyed your life, you should not take a way that makes you ashamed too, in front of whole country and society.
This is one single story that’s happening every day, going unnoticed, like a virus that is killing our community silently everyday. Prova is a star perhaps that’s why it came in lime light. But we really should become more human to avoid this corruption. Who knows, next target can be someone who is very dear and close to you!
Tips regarding privacy:
# Live a Record-less life: Never keep a record of what you are doing with someone you love. Mind is a monster, it changes shape every single moment. Someone you love today, can be the someone you hate too much next day.
# Save your identity: Never share personal information with strangers. The world outside is not a bed of rose.
# Social communication: Be careful while you use Soical sites like facebook, Myspace etc. Always check your privacy settings and set it to maximum level.
# Photos & Videos: Photos & videos are things that you never compromise with someone. Always check is someone is trying to sneak something out of you.
# Telephone conversation: Be sure while you talk, who knows it may get tapped!
# Never get blackmailed: Never ever get blackmailed by someone who love or someone who knows your secret for any reason or unhealthy love excuses. Blackmailers try to get control of you and fall you into trap much deeper than before. So, If you have to suffer temporarily for your blackmailed secret, accept it! But don’t take it to much further where it may bring a painful ending.
I don’t know if this article is helpful to you or not, But if it really comes on someone’s help it’ll be my greatest pleasure. Save the society as it saves you and your next generation.